What are you passionate about????

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Are you passionate about your life? Your job? Your hobbies? What are you passionate about? How do you incorporate those passions into your life?

What is passion?                                                                                                                                           PASSION   -: Passion is a very strong feeling about a person or thing. Passion is an intense emotion, a compellingImage result for how to follow passion enthusiasm or desire for something.Passion may be a friendly or eager interest in or admiration for a proposal, cause, discovery, or activity or love – to a feeling of unusual excitement, enthusiasm or compelling emotion, a positive affinity or love, towards a subject. It is particularly used in the context of romance or sexual desire though it generally implies a deeper or more encompassing emotion than that implied by the term lust.

 

why following your passion is more important than money?                                                         Reasons Why Following Your Passion Is More Important Than Money  -:

Money is a very powerful thing, it builds empires and breaks down kingdoms, it allows for dreams to come true and it takes others away, it makes some people happy and others completely miserable. Today the pursuit of money is almost directly linked to the pursuit of happiness, many will argue that money = happiness.

However, this is inherently problematic as this mindset leads many people to stray down a path that doesn’t best suit them. When people choose their careers, they are sometimes blinded by money and so choose to follow the paper trail. Although money is great and can buy us all the things that will temporarily make us happy, no amount of money can buy time. Time is our most valuable asset and it is something, that while on this earth, we should spend most wisely. You shouldn’t feel like you’re mindlessly wasting your life away

This generation is particularly in trouble because jobs are scarce and many of us will be stuck doing jobs we hate just because we need money. Although this may be the right move for our careers now, this shouldn’t be something we do for the rest of our lives. it is best we search for something we are passionate about. Here are the 10 reasons why you should follow your passion and not the money.

1. Working for money may seem like good enough motivation for one to keep at their career.

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Every morning Monday through Friday you go to work 9 to 5 sitting their punching away the hours stressing about the work at hand. This is not a way to enjoy your life. Working for 8 hours a day 5 times a week at something that makes you miserable is not the way you live life to the fullest.

Many people who choose careers that don’t make them happy will tell you that they would all do it differently if they had the chance. You only have one life, so don’t waste it working somewhere you hate just because of the money.

 

2. You’re more passionate about the work you are doing.

There is nothing worse than having to wake up every morning during the week to mindlessly go do work you don’t even care about. However, this is never really an issue when you are passionate about the work you do. If you are not forced to work somewhere because of monetary constraint, you truly enjoy what you do and you never really work a day in your life.

3. You can relate more to the work and come up with better ideas.

Being forced to do work is one of the most draining experiences. While there are times at every job where you may feel the work may be draining and dull, you have to realize that not every day is going to be an enjoyable one. There are highs and lows, but when you are passionate about the work you you look past the dull days. Your creative process is also different. You are more inclined to come up with creative ideas when you like what you do.

4. Work doesn’t feel like it’s forced upon you.

When you value money over your overall health and your passion, you will find yourself in an endless cycle of misery. Work no longer becomes a career or a journey, but more of a  taxing nuisance on your mind and body that has to get done.

Every day that you go to work with this mindset you begin to hate your job more and more. While many people feel that they must work hard to retire and have money to enjoy themselves, what’s the point of enjoying yourself in your later years when you spent your life being miserable?

5. No matter how much money you make, nothing will help you overcome the feeling of doing something you hate.

Many accountants come into corporate America, put in reckless hours during the week and make a great paycheck on pay day. Many of them have all this money piled up, but they never really get to enjoy the fruits of their labor because their labor takes up most of their lives.

Many of them hate their jobs because they aren’t really passionate about what they do. Is there a worse feeling than doing something you hate? Eventually this hatred will cause stress and in the long run, it will have lasting effects on your health.

6. You are more inclined to work later hours.

When you work somewhere that you are passionate about, putting in later hours isn’t as much of a burden as it is when you don’t like what you are doing. To you, putting in the extra hours doesn’t hurt as much because you don’t feel like you are forced to do it, which makes the experience that much more enjoyable.

Every industry has a busy season and without a doubt there will come a time when you will need to put in the extra hours. Will it be easier for you to work longer on something you can relate to or something you can’t stand doing?

7.You are willing to go above and beyond the call of duty.

Certain obligations at your work will require you to go above and beyond the call of duty. In certain times during the busy seasons, you may be asked to do certain tasks that are not part of your everyday schedule. It is much easier for you to put in the extra work if it’s something you actually care about. Because you are passionate about your job, you will be willing to put in the extra effort to go beyond what is required of you.

8. No obstacle will stop you from achieving success.

When you really enjoy what you do, nothing will stop you from getting your work done. Because you are passionate about what you do, you feel unstoppable and nothing can obstruct you from achieving greatness. Your passion ignites your work, and like a rocket, it accelerates you past road blocks that may come about. Any obstacle that comes your way is accepted and fought off with a creative solution.

9. Our working careers will consume most of our lives, so we might as well do something we enjoy.

You will spend a majority of your life working and there is no other way around this fact unless you are born into a wealthy family or marry rich. For the rest of us who weren’t fortunate enough, we will be spending a good portion of our lives working in order to make ends meet.

There is no way around this, so we might as well accept the cards we are dealt. Many people go about this the wrong way because they feel like work is something they have to do rather then something they can enjoy. Once you realize that your career should be something you enjoy, then you will lead a more happy and fulfilling life.

10. You will get more fulfillment when you finally make it.

There are few feelings better than achieving a level of success you set out for yourself. Nothing like crossing off your bucket list of goals you set out for yourself to achieve. When you finally reach the pinnacle, it is that much more enjoyable knowing you got there doing something you love. Remember work doesn’t have to be something that you hate doing, stay true to yourself and always do what makes you happy.

Why people don’t follow there passion?                                                                                              The reasons people don’t follow their passions  -:

Pursuing your passion can mean different things to different people, but no matter your definition, it seems people always have a reason why they can’t do it. If you’re someone who has always wanted to follow your dream but never gained any traction, here are some answers.

“I Don’t Know What My Passion Is”

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It’s pretty hard to pursue something you aren’t sure about. If you can’t seem to find something you’d love doing, you’re not alone. Many of us struggle with what our own ideas of what a “dream job” would be. If you feel a little like you’re just floating along the river of life, it might be a good idea to grab a paddle and start exploring uncharted waters. Take a step out of your comfort zone and experience new things. When you’re stuck in your bubble, you’re afraid of being uncomfortable. Branch out and see what’s out there. Eventually you’ll encounter something that gets you excited.

The advice I’ve given, over and over, is simple: get curious and explore. Then notice your own reaction. Curiosity (which I talk about fairly often) is a wonderful thing. It’s that feeling of “I really want to find out more about this.” It’s like a mental and emotional itch to understand that you just have to scratch. If our hypothetical man and woman allowed themselves to get curious about their areas of possible passion, they’d have three main avenues of exploration to satisfy that curiosity: information, people and situations.
Do research, talk to others who share the passion you’re curious about, and put yourself in situations that force yourself to ask “is this something I like?” You can also ask yourself the simple question of “what do I find myself doing?” Everyone has hobbies, of course, but try to look deeper at the things that motivate you in life.

“The most successful people are obsessed with solving an important problem, something that matters to them. They remind me of a dog chasing a tennis ball… find your tennis ball—the thing that pulls you.”

Take at least 30 minutes, going over this question — often we forget about things we’ve done well. Think back, as far as you can, to jobs, projects, hobbies. This could be your passion. Or you may have several things. Start a list of potential candidates.
So, what’s your tennis ball? Maybe you still don’t know for sure, but there are probably a few balls bouncing around your head. That’s still progress. Think of all the ideas you have for what you’re passionate about as flowers that need to be pruned. For your ideas to grow they have to be trimmed down into something that can flourish. Spend enough time thinking, observing, and pruning, and you’ll be able to narrow down something that makes your heart skip a beat. A passion should thrill you to the core and—when you break it all down—a passion is what makes you want to live on.
“I’m Already Too Busy with Work and My Passion Doesn’t Pay the Bills”

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This is the most common excuse of them all. You know exactly what you want to do, but there’s just too much stuff going on, right? The truth is, you are busy—everybody is—but by always thinking and saying that you’re busy, you’re convincing yourself that there is no possible way to find a few minutes each day to do what you want to do. There are some job exceptions out there, but you absolutely have to stop pretending like there is no time left on earth when your shift ends.
It’s great to have a job while you pursue your passion—in fact it’s ideal—but it’s definitely not an excuse to never pursue it. There is an almost endless list of great people that worked toward their goals while holding a run-of-the-mill day job. You’re tired? So were they. They had 24 hours in a day just like you.
If your job allows it, find time at work to do what you love. Every little bit counts. Obviously you don’t want your normal work to suffer, but there are plenty of ways to sneak in a little time without announcing to the world that you’re blowing off your job. You don’t have to write your novel in a week or perfect your chicken soup recipe during one lunch hour. —your passion is always a work in progress:
Once you accept that you and your passion project are a beautiful work in progress, you will be able to fully enjoy working on your passion project each day and eliminate the poisonous feeling of “not enough.” Set attainable monthly, weekly, and daily goals for yourself and reward yourself.
Move toward your goal step by step. Not only will you see your progress over time, but you’ll be more excited about your work day. You’ll be excited for that 10 minute block of time in the afternoon you get to write, or for that first half of your lunch hour that you set aside to learn how to code.

Keep in mind that pursuing your passion doesn’t necessarily mean working your dream job. There are plenty of arguments that say that “doing what you love” for a job isn’t possible for everyone. In fact—depending on what your passion is—trying to make your passion your job could be a really bad idea. It could lead you to financial ruin or even push you to despise what was once your passion. Fortunately, work isn’t the only aspect of your life (or at least it shouldn’t be). There are plenty of other avenues for you to go after that special something in your life. Work a job that’s good enough for you and go after your dream on the side. There’s no rule that says you can’t do both, and it’s more common than you think. Mike the janitor does improv comedy three nights a week, Marge in accounting is a sidewalk chalk artist, and Billy the IT guy plays the standup bass in a jazz band. If work is something that has to be its own thing in your life, find your duality and do what you love with the rest of your time.

“I Don’t Want to Sacrifice My Free Time”
Hopefully what you want to pursue is something you already seek in your free time. If not, this one’s all on you. If you don’t want to use your free time to pursue what you love, maybe you’re not as passionate about it as you thought you were. It’s important to avoid burnout, but your free time is the best time to work your way toward something.

This really is the test for how passionate you are and how much you want something. Are you willing to sacrifice your weekend freelancing? Are you willing to take night classes after a long day of work? The time is there, but will you use it? It’s entirely up to you. If you have no free time, find a way to make it. Get a babysitter, take online classes from home, or get a friend involved. One way or another, you have the power to find time for what you love. You just have to find the right balance for you.
“I’m Afraid That I’ll Fail”

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Let’s get it out of the way right now: you will fail. No one gets it right the first time. Failure is how we learn, adapt, and toughen up so we can get to the point where we can succeed. Get over it and move forward. In our world, failure is everywhere, but fortunately, it’s also what keeps us all going.
how just having a “good career” is an impossibility. This day and age you’ll work yourself to the bone doing something you don’t love in the hopes you’ll have a good career, but you’ll never be truly satisfied. People get there because they’re afraid to fail doing something else, something uncomfortable. Failure isn’t something you need to be afraid of, but it gets to all of us. Ask yourself “what if” questions so you can see the consequences for yourself. What harm is it if you want to start painting or play in a band? So what if the first play you act in is a disaster? With each failure, you get better and you get closer to doing the thing you love.
“I Don’t Know Where to Start”

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Maybe you know exactly what you want to do, but it all seems a little overwhelming. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and you won’t achieve your huge, passionate goals in a day either. Break that big, scary goal down into a lot of little goals. Make each goal a step in the right direction.

A SMART goal is SPECIFIC. What do I want to accomplish? Why do I want to accomplish it? What are the benefits? Who is involved? Where will it be located?
A SMART goal is MEASURABLE. How much is needed? What tools do I need to measure progress? What targets will I establish as I progress towards my goal? How will I know when it is accomplished?
A SMART goal is ATTAINABLE. How can my goal be accomplished? How is my goal action-oriented? How much will it cost to launch and support my goal? What knowledge and skills are needed to reach this goal?
A SMART goal is REALISTIC. Why is my goal meaningful? Why is there a need for this goal? Why is this the right time to pursue this goal? Is this goal aligned with my core values?
A SMART goal is TIME-BOUND. Is there a time frame for implementation of this goal? When will this plan be implemented? What will I do within the next six months to reach my goal? What will I do within the next six weeks to reach my goal? What will I do this week to reach my goal?
Know exactly what you’re doing every step of the way and make sure it’s quantifiable. When you can see what you’ve accomplished so far, it motivates you to keep going. If routine is important for you, make yourself a schedule so you always know when you’re making time for your passion projects. Don’t make it overwhelming, but try and challenge yourself. Promise yourself that you’ll work on your project for 90 minutes every day, or that you’ll draw one new picture every evening. Whatever you set for yourself, the challenge will help keep you interested.
Lastly, just get started. Taking that initial leap is the most important part of any path. If you don’t know what to write, just start typing. If you don’t know what to paint, just start making brush strokes. If you don’t know what to cook, just start pulling things out of the fridge. Force yourself to make a move and you’ll jump start your motivation.
“I Can’t Do It Alone”

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No doubt, there’s many obstacles in your life that get in the way. Maybe you have children, or maybe you have to keep two jobs to stay afloat. It’s not easy. If things are bogging you down too much, remember that it’s okay to ask for help. Career Counselor Markell R. Steele at Futures In Motion recommends being honest with the people in your life if you need some support:

When things aren’t going well, we all have the tendency to hide the truth. If you hide behind a façade people will assume everything is good and won’t extend opportunities or suggestions. Countless times I’ve had people tell me about great opportunities, then discount my interest assuming I was too busy to participate… If you’re honest with people, you’d be surprised at how sympathetic and even helpful they can be. I’m not talking about whining and complaining. I’m talking about admitting that things are not going as well as you’d like, but you’re working on improving them. It’s even better if you have some clarity about your aspirations. It’s been my experience that pursuing passion is often a balancing act rather than an either/or proposition.
Without support it’s twice as hard to take on the weight of a new project. Passions are things that you have to give a lot of yourself to, and there’s only so much of you to give. Sometimes you may need more than a helping hand, and it’s okay to open up about it all:

On the emotional side, it will be a lot easier to overcome your fears and insecurities if you have people close to you cheering you on and encouraging you. And on the financial side, you need their help to trim expenses and/or provide additional sources of income.
Talk with friends and family, significant others, or even close coworkers. Let people in on what you’re doing and how it’s affecting you. Chances are they’ll cheer you on and do whatever they can, and someday down the road you can return the favor. There is nothing weak about asking for help. It takes a lot of strength and courage to realize you need it and ask for it.

“I’ll Get to It Later”

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No, you won’t. You’ll just keep telling yourself that until it’s too late. You have the time to do it right now. If you can’t see it, find it or make it, because eventually you really won’t have any time. Eventually there won’t be a tomorrow that you can use as a starting point. The funny thing with time is if you don’t use it, you lose it. It will be difficult and it may take a long time, but you shouldn’t give up on a dream just because of how long it will take.

Pursuing your passion can mean different things to different people, but no matter your definition, it seems people always have a reason why they can’t do it. If you’re someone who has always wanted to follow your dream but never gained any traction, here are some answers.

“I Don’t Know What My Passion Is”

It’s pretty hard to pursue something you aren’t sure about. If you can’t seem to find something you’d love doing, you’re not alone. Many of us struggle with what our own ideas of what a “dream job” would be. If you feel a little like you’re just floating along the river of life, it might be a good idea to grab a paddle and start exploring uncharted waters. Take a step out of your comfort zone and experience new things. When you’restuck in your bubble, you’re afraid of being uncomfortable. Branch out and see what’s out there. Eventually you’ll encounter something that gets you excited.

Where should you look? You must have some idea of what interests you a little bit. Once you’ve narrowed down the categories, Erika Anderson at Forbes recommends putting yourself out there however you can:

The advice I’ve given, over and over, is simple: get curious and explore. Thennotice your own reaction. Curiosity (which I talk about fairly often) is a wonderful thing. It’s that feeling of “I really want to find out more about this.” It’s like a mental and emotional itch to understand that you just have to scratch. If our hypothetical man and woman allowed themselves to get curious about their areas of possible passion, they’d have three main avenues of exploration to satisfy that curiosity:information, people and situations.

Do research, talk to others who share the passion you’re curious about, and put yourself in situations that force yourself to ask “is this something I like?” You can also ask yourself the simple question of “what do I find myself doing?” Everyone has hobbies, of course, but try to look deeper at the things that motivate you in life. Dropbox founder Drew Houston gave a great example of this type of question:

“The most successful people are obsessed with solving an important problem, something that matters to them. They remind me of a dog chasing a tennis ball… find your tennis ball—the thing that pulls you.”

A big factor in finding your passion is also recognizing what you’re good at. You are good at something, guaranteed. Maybe you have a way with numbers, or maybe you have an eye for design. One way or another, you have an ability that’s probably untapped. Leo Babauta at Zenhabits suggests asking yourself what you can do, giving yourself enough time to really think about it:

Take at least 30 minutes, going over this question — often we forget about things we’ve done well. Think back, as far as you can, to jobs, projects, hobbies. This could be your passion. Or you may have several things. Start a list of potential candidates.

So, what’s your tennis ball? Maybe you still don’t know for sure, but there are probably a few balls bouncing around your head. That’s still progress. Think of all the ideas you have for what you’re passionate about asflowers that need to be pruned. For your ideas to grow they have to be trimmed down into something that can flourish. Spend enough time thinking, observing, and pruning, and you’ll be able to narrow down something that makes your heart skip a beat. A passion should thrill you to the core and—when you break it all down—a passion is what makes you want to live on.

“I’m Already Too Busy with Work and My Passion Doesn’t Pay the Bills”

This is the most common excuse of them all. You know exactly what you want to do, but there’s just too much stuff going on, right? The truth is, you are busy—everybody is—but by always thinking and saying that you’re busy, you’re convincing yourself that there is no possible way to find a few minutes each day to do what you want to do. There are some job exceptions out there, but you absolutely have to stop pretending like there is no time left on earth when your shift ends.

It’s great to have a job while you pursue your passion—in fact it’s ideal—but it’s definitely not an excuse to never pursue it. There is an almost endless list of great people that worked toward their goals while holding a run-of-the-mill day job. You’re tired? So were they. They had 24 hours in a day just like you.

If your job allows it, find time at work to do what you love. Every little bit counts. Obviously you don’t want your normal work to suffer, but there are plenty of ways to sneak in a little time without announcing to the world that you’re blowing off your job. You don’t have to write your novel in a week or perfect your chicken soup recipe during one lunch hour. Michela Aramini at weblog Levo League notes something important to keep in mind—your passion is always a work in progress:

Once you accept that you and your passion project are a beautiful work in progress, you will be able to fully enjoy working on your passion project each day and eliminate the poisonous feeling of “not enough.” Set attainable monthly, weekly, and daily goals for yourself and reward yourself.

Move toward your goal step by step. Not only will you see your progress over time, but you’ll be more excited about your work day. You’ll be excited for that 10 minute block of time in the afternoon you get to write, or for that first half of your lunch hour that you set aside to learn how to code.

Keep in mind that pursuing your passion doesn’t necessarily mean working your dream job. There are plenty of arguments that say that “doing what you love” for a job isn’t possible for everyone. In fact—depending on what your passion is—trying to make your passion your job could be a really bad idea. It could lead you to financial ruin or even push you to despise what was once your passion. Fortunately, work isn’t the only aspect of your life (or at least it shouldn’t be). There are plenty of other avenues for you to go after that special something in your life. Work a job that’s good enough for you and go after your dream on the side. There’s no rule that says you can’t do both, and it’s more common than you think. Mike the janitor does improv comedy three nights a week, Marge in accounting is a sidewalk chalk artist, and Billy the IT guy plays the standup bass in a jazz band. If work is something that has to be its own thing in your life, find your duality and do what you love with the rest of your time.

“I Don’t Want to Sacrifice My Free Time”

Hopefully what you want to pursue is something you already seek in your free time. If not, this one’s all on you. If you don’t want to use your free time to pursue what you love, maybe you’re not as passionate about it as you thought you were. It’s important to avoid burnout, but your free time is the best time to work your way toward something.

This really is the test for how passionate you are and how much you want something. Are you willing to sacrifice your weekend freelancing? Are you willing to take night classes after a long day of work? The time is there, but will you use it? It’s entirely up to you. If you have no free time, find a way to make it. Get a babysitter, take online classes from home, or get a friend involved. One way or another, you have the power to find time for what you love. You just have to find the right balance for you.

“I’m Afraid That I’ll Fail”

Let’s get it out of the way right now: you will fail. No one gets it right the first time. Failure is how we learn, adapt, and toughen up so we can get to the point where we can succeed. Get over it and move forward. In our world, failure is everywhere, but fortunately, it’s also what keeps us all going.

Professor Larry Smith explains in the TED talk video above how just having a “good career” is an impossibility. This day and age you’ll work yourself to the bone doing something you don’t love in the hopes you’ll have a good career, but you’ll never be truly satisfied. People get there because they’re afraid to fail doing something else, something uncomfortable. Failure isn’t something you need to be afraid of, but it gets to all of us. Ask yourself “what if” questions so you can see the consequences for yourself. What harm is it if you want to start painting or play in a band? So what if the first play you act in is a disaster? With each failure, you get better and you get closer to doing the thing you love.

“I Don’t Know Where to Start”

Maybe you know exactly what you want to do, but it all seems a little overwhelming. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and you won’t achieve your huge, passionate goals in a day either. Break that big, scary goal down into a lot of little goals. Make each goal a step in the right direction. On her Linkedin blog, Dr. Julie Connor suggests creating SMART goals:

  • A SMART goal is SPECIFIC. What do I want to accomplish? Why do I want to accomplish it? What are the benefits? Who is involved? Where will it be located?
  • A SMART goal is MEASURABLE. How much is needed? What tools do I need to measure progress? What targets will I establish as I progress towards my goal? How will I know when it is accomplished?
  • A SMART goal is ATTAINABLE. How can my goal be accomplished? How is my goal action-oriented? How much will it cost to launch and support my goal? What knowledge and skills are needed to reach this goal?
  • A SMART goal is REALISTIC. Why is my goal meaningful? Why is there a need for this goal? Why is this the right time to pursue this goal? Is this goal aligned with my core values?
  • A SMART goal is TIME-BOUND. Is there a time frame for implementation of this goal? When will this plan be implemented? What will I do within the next six months to reach my goal? What will I do within the next six weeks to reach my goal? What will I do this week to reach my goal?

Know exactly what you’re doing every step of the way and make sure it’s quantifiable. When you can see what you’ve accomplished so far, it motivates you to keep going. If routine is important for you, make yourself a schedule so you always know when you’re making time for your passion projects. Don’t make it overwhelming, but try and challenge yourself. Promise yourself that you’ll work on your project for 90 minutes every day, or that you’ll draw one new picture every evening. Whatever you set for yourself, the challenge will help keep you interested.

Lastly, just get started. Taking that initial leap is the most important part of any path. If you don’t know what to write, just start typing. If you don’t know what to paint, just start making brush strokes. If you don’t know what to cook, just start pulling things out of the fridge. Force yourself to make a move and you’ll jump start your motivation.

“I Can’t Do It Alone”

No doubt, there’s many obstacles in your life that get in the way. Maybe you have children, or maybe you have to keep two jobs to stay afloat. It’s not easy. If things are bogging you down too much, remember that it’s okay to ask for help. Career Counselor Markell R. Steele at Futures In Motion recommends being honest with the people in your life if you need some support:

When things aren’t going well, we all have the tendency to hide the truth. If you hide behind a façade people will assume everything is good and won’t extend opportunities or suggestions. Countless times I’ve had people tell me about great opportunities, then discount my interest assuming I was too busy to participate… If you’re honest with people, you’d be surprised at how sympathetic and even helpful they can be. I’m not talking about whining and complaining. I’m talking about admitting that things are not going as well as you’d like, but you’re working on improving them. It’s even better if you have some clarity about your aspirations. It’s been my experience that pursuing passion is often a balancing act rather than an either/or proposition.

Without support it’s twice as hard to take on the weight of a new project. Passions are things that you have to give a lot of yourself to, and there’s only so much of you to give. Sometimes you may need more than a helping hand, and Mark McNeilly at Fast Company explains that it’s okay to open up about it all:

On the emotional side, it will be a lot easier to overcome your fears and insecurities if you have people close to you cheering you on and encouraging you. And on the financial side, you need their help to trim expenses and/or provide additional sources of income.

Talk with friends and family, significant others, or even close coworkers. Let people in on what you’re doing and how it’s affecting you. Chances are they’ll cheer you on and do whatever they can, and someday down the road you can return the favor. There is nothing weak about asking for help. It takes a lot of strength and courage to realize you need it and ask for it.

“I’ll Get to It Later”

No, you won’t. You’ll just keep telling yourself that until it’s too late. You have the time to do it right now. If you can’t see it, find it or make it, because eventually you really won’t have any time. Eventually there won’t be a tomorrow that you can use as a starting point. The funny thing with time is if you don’t use it, you lose it. It will be difficult and it may take a long time, but you shouldn’t give up on a dream just because of how long it will take.

A strange recharge – Perplexed

Perplexed

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‘ I should not do this . this is wrong ‘ Ishika muttered to herself. lying in freefall position on bed. she had buried her head deep inside the pillow hairs all over the pillow  she was totally  emerged in her thoughts . Her phone rung she moved her head to see who is disturbing her the screen shows the familiar but unsaved number  it was from raghav . she was staring at her phone totally lost. she didn’t pick up the call not once. Raghav tried calling her so many times. After her sudden walk off  from the CCD today.

Ishika was in a relationship with karan from past two years . karan and Ishika were from same college and there story also begins from a college function . karan  was tall ,fair complexioned , short silky hairs set with gel and good physics.where they met for first time.both are working on same drama Karan was an actor in that play whereas Ishika  was writer . so they both have to spent quite a time with each other in that time they feel attracted towards each oher then after the  play was complete . Whole team of the play is invited on the stage and karan proposed her on stage in front of all the audience on knees ‘perfect scene’ Ishika accepts the proposal and they both hugged each other the whole auditorium is filed with sound of clapping.In beginning they were so much in love but after three months little time issues and other issues comes up. In past three months they spent every possible second with each other if they were not physically present with each other they always seems to be on calls. they have spent a lot quality time with each other. karan always tries to get cozy with her in beginning she used to get offended but later she accepts that as a part of their relationship. And they were in physical relation too with mutual concern .they spent a lot time in each others arms. but after some time things got changed karan was little ignoring her and was creating a space between them. that was bothering ishika each and every second. she tried so many times to clear her issues and share her fear with karan but karan never pays any attention towards her and always convince her by saying that he will always love her but now he want to focus on ther things in life to make his future. their relationship was going through a rough phase but the fact remains was she was in a relationship.

Today she met a guy which is just perfect who knows how to treat a girl. how to make her feel happy . Ishika had never felt this kind of connection and happiness in heart with karan never ever. but with him his eyes was mesmerizing she sometimes find lost in his eyes. she sense something as love in his eyes. through she want this meeting to never end but she cant bear the love in his eyes. she thinks its better to escape from this situation and she leaves the CCD and she leaves two eyes full of love and respect for her behind because the perplexed thought i.e ‘how can she feel for someone else being in a two year relationship’ these thoughts were perplexing her’.

 to be continued……

(Sorry i m not good with words . it is just an attempt . so sorry if i did any mistake in above story)

 

A Strange Recharge

Recharge
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Its a short story comes up in my mind on the topic ‘recharge’. I thought I should share it with all. so the story begins in a mobile shop crowded with customers . A girl in a black jeans , tank top and flat bellies , sharp features , deep black eyes , hairs tied in pony tail with a fringe of hair on her face and she is  staring at recharge plan chart and after thinking for a while she decided to go for a combo voucher she was about to tell the retailer to do the recharge but then she again stopped by a call and she stepped out of the shop and make her way to her home.there were some guests arrived at. its being too late after the guests leave she remember then there is no. balance in her phone she remember the incomplete recharge process of morning. she checked out her phone and there were some messages and some missed calls she check the messages and get shocked seeing the combo voucher’s activation message but she did not even ask the retailer nor she paid the amount then how come this recharge be done she was shocked then she checked the missed call details some were from the known numbers and 1 from unknown she immediately call back there was a male voice from another end the voice is quite sweet but manly .

hello , who is this?

hey its raghav

who raghav????

you don’t know me actually i just called you up to tell that By mistake my recharge is done at your number so you might be thinking how is it done?

ya , actually i was busy . I did checked it now and wondering about it,  well give me your details so that  i will give you the recharge amount.

No, no its perfectly alright you don’t need to.

please I can’t take this . meet me tomorrow please I insist please.

okay we will but I cant take the money , but you can give me a coffee treat instead of that.

okay catch you tomorrow at cafe coffee day .

wait, atleast tell me your name na…

ishika.

nice name , ok bye see u tomorrow at 6 pm.

ya ,bye.

At cafe coffee day 

as she enters  the CCD she looks around  she found a boy with A nice dark suit Combine a plain light shirt  a leather  belt and a pair of leather shoes that matches the color of suit. and a watch. first thought comes in my mind is perfectly dressed up. may be he comes directly from any office meeting but there was a doubt in my mind Is he raghav or not?  so i decided to go and ask him .

hey is this raghav?

Ya , Umm  ishika right? so good to see you . you’re really pretty.

she blushes her face turned red like tomato. she thanked him by noding her head they ordered two cold coffees “devils own” and trust me its too good and they were thinking where to start from.

Raghav – so what do you do?

Ishika –  nothing much just studying. and you let me guess you work in an MNC ?

Raghav – Actually I have my own company.

Ishika – Really !

(cold coffee arrives they took their coffees )

Raghav – yup . so would you like to visit my office once?

Ishika – of course , someday. well I should leave now I have to reach somewhere now  so bye see you later.

Ishika leaves the cafe and raghav keeps on staring at the entrance gate then he realize that she has gone.

After that raghav tried calling her but she did not answer any of his calls neither they meet again but raghav never forget that meeting which cause due to ‘ A strange recharge ‘ raghav never forget her . may be she too can’t but the question is why she did not pick up his calls and what is to be happened next in the future well story is-

To be continued…………..

(Sorry i m not good with words . it is just an attempt . so sorry if i did any mistake in above story)

 

 

Start a day with ” Sandwich “

Sandwich
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Break fast with a cup of coffee and a sandwich is just wow ya i know its too common but still i love to have it to start my day . so basically my day starts from the moment I wake up slowly open my eyes to look around i found my self in my room in bed , hairs all messy , blanket half over me half is dropping down from edges of bed . a little alarm clock on my side table  , a fan on my ceiling ,sometimes I even come to see my mom standing in front of my bed waiting for me to wake up with a l’il angry look ( Angry because I’ m late ) but never put the anger for long after seeing smile on my face. her anger vanishes immediately in seconds. after i get up do all-daily-essentials my mom gives me the best morning breakfast whatever i demand of. hawww she is so sweet I just love maa

Veg sandwich used to be one of my favorite snack during the college days. when i would be hungry and sometimes without a tiffin box, me and my friends would go to the sandwich stall opposite our college and have the plain or toasted veg sandwich. we were regular at the the sandwich guy’s stall and thus he would tailor make the sandwiches for us, as per our preferences.my sis is also so fond of these sandwiches, specially the toasted ones. whenever we would go to any restaurant , we always knew what she is going to order first – a toast sandwich. so this post is dedicated to my sis who is a fan of the sandwiches. these sandwiches are a also a popular street food.what adds spice to the veg sandwich is the spicy coriander chutney, black salt and chaat masala. nowadays we do get the sandwich masala and you can add this also. for more flavors, roasted cumin powder as well as freshly powdered black pepper can also be added. to make a perfect sandwich

BEAUTY OF “Elegance”

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” Elegance is not being noticed, its about being remembered.”

Elegance is the only beauty that never fades.sometimes you need to step outside,get some air and remind your self of who you are and where you want to be. Elegance is the part  where you find out who you are .

Girls do not dress for boys.they dress for themselves, and of course , each other.if girls dressed for boys , they’d just walk around naked at all times.

“Don’t be into trends. Don’t make fashion own you, but you decide what you are, what you want to express by the way you dress and the way you live.”

 Fashion  is not something that exists in dresses only. Fashion is in the sky, in the street, fashion has to do with ideas, the way we live, what is happening.

“I have always believed that fashion was not only to make women more beautiful, but also to reassure them, give them confidence.”

“Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman who is wearing it.”

— Yves Saint-Laurent

“Whoever said that money can’t buy happiness, simply didn’t know where to go shopping.”

— Bo Derek

“The most beautiful clothes that can dress a woman are the arms of the man she loves.”

— Yves Saint-Laurent

“Unique and different is the next generation of beautiful.”

— Taylor Swift

“Design is a constant challenge to balance comfort with luxe, the practical with the desirable.”

— Donna Karan

“Fashion is so close in revealing a person’s inner feelings and everybody seems to hate to lay claim to vanity so people tend to push it away. It’s really too close to the quick of the soul.”

— Stella Blum

“The most beautiful makeup of a woman is passion. But cosmetics are easier to buy.”

— Yves Saint-Laurent

“Women think of all colors except the absence of color. I have said that black has it all. White too. Their beauty is absolute. It is the perfect harmony.”

— Coco Chanel

“For people who know McQueen, there is always an underlying message. It’s usually only the intellectual ones who understand what’s going on in what I do.”

— Alexander McQueen

“I’m human. If I didn’t make mistakes, I’d never learn. You can only go forward by making mistakes.”

— Alexander McQueen

“Clothes and jewellery should be startling, individual. When you see a woman in my clothes, you want to know more about them. To me, that is what distinguishes good designers from bad designers.”

— Alexander McQueen

Twinkle – Twinkle

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By the word twinkle only one thing comes in my mind the kindergarten / nursery rhymes whose lyrics are like –

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twinkle twinkle first poem of our life

“Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star” is a popular English lullaby. The lyrics are from an early 19th-century English poem by Jane Taylor, “The Star”. The poem, which is in couplet form, was first published in 1806 in Rhymes for the Nursery, a collection of poems by Taylor and her sister Ann. It is sung to the tune of the French melody Ah! vous dirai-je, maman, which was published in 1761 and later arranged by several composers including Mozart with Twelve Variations on “Ah vous dirai-je, Maman”. The English lyrics have five stanzas, although only the first is widely known. It has a Roud Folk Song Index number of 7666. This song is usually performed in the key of C Major.

So this a complete poem and i think most of us only remember the first stanza of the poem especially me , well when we think of this poem picture , images comes up in our mind of  mum holding hand of a cute little cute kids in neat and tidy school uniform and a barbie or Micky mouse or some teddy bear kind of bags same cartoon printed cute sipper water bottles hanging around their neck The bottle  has a flip top that makes it easy to open and close. The exterior of the bottle has a trendy and colorful design that makes it very appealing for children.the expression of kids face is almost crying like. image of my first day to school comes in my mind when my mum used to tell me about my childhood. I was so sad that day how i was reacting and how i react after coming back from school all she used to tell me thousand of times but still whenever i hear i found the same enticement , joy and happiness on my face as if i m hearing all this for first time. 

 

What is plop????

Plop
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So , what a plop really means?                                                                                                                                       “ To fall with a sound like that of an object falling into water without splashing. “

But when i imagine this word in my mind a beautiful picture of rain drops falling in river appears in my mind and believe me it was beautiful. a rain drop of new hope for life , for future . A pretty scenario displayed in my mind. it gives me special refreshing positive and happy wibes . I love to watch beauty of nature . it gives me divine pleasure. sometimes when we sit alone and thinking about how life changes , people changes with time .How people becomes so selfish i found myself in deep thoughts ah kind of depression and lost well in that case i choose to sit in front of any lake , river , tree or any place surrounded by nature it gives  immense peace i think everybody should try this . and I remember  a song by today’s topic plop –

                                                                “A Drop In The Ocean”

A drop in the ocean
A change in the weather
I was praying that you and me might end up together
It’s like wishing for rain as I stand in the desert
But I’m holding you closer than most ’cause you are my heaven

I don’t wanna waste the weekend
If you don’t love me pretend
A few more hours then it’s time to go

As my train rolls down the east coast I wonder how you keep warm
It’s too late to cry
Too broken to move on

And still I can’t let you be
Most nights I hardly sleep
Don’t take what you don’t need from me

It’s just a drop in the ocean
A change in the weather
I was praying that you and me might end up together
It’s like wishing for rain as I stand in the desert
But I’m holding you closer than most ’cause you are my heaven

Misplaced trust in old friends
Never counting regrets
By the grace of God I do not rest at all

And New England as the leaves change
The last excuse that I’ll claim
I was a boy who loved a woman like a little girl

And still I can’t let you be
Most nights I hardly sleep
Don’t take what you don’t need from me

It’s just a drop in the ocean
A change in the weather
I was praying that you and me might end up together
It’s like wishing for rain as I stand in the desert
But I’m holding you closer than most ’cause you are my…

Heaven doesn’t seem far away anymore
No, no
Heaven doesn’t seem far away

Heaven doesn’t seem far away anymore
No, no
Heaven doesn’t seem far away
Oh, oh

It’s just a drop in the ocean
A drop in the ocean
A change in the weather
I was praying that you and me might end up together
It’s like wishing for rain as I stand in the desert
But I’m holding you closer than most ’cause you are my heaven
You are my heave

I love cake

Cake

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“Love for cake”  It seems to be very common almost everybody loves cake apart from some calories and diet conscious persons but somewhere in their heart they too love to eat every bite of cake but because of their routine they have to sacrifice their wish- poor them. well There are some peoples who want cake any how i mean even if it is affecting their size they just don’t care and I m one of them but the thing is I m slip and under weight so calories etc doesn’t bother me not at all.

“Nothing beats the expression and excitement on a Child’s face when they see their birthday cake and cannot wait to dig their teeth in, it is priceless”

I love cake will create that special cake for almost any event, formal  corporate, special occasion, birthdays, weddings, adult, christening, baby showers, bridal showers, religious etc. creative cup cakes, cake pops, 3d cakes, edible picture cakes, and custom cakes.

Aww I just Love cakes so much well eat cakes keep yourself happy and cheerful……….

Obviously I love you….

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Saying “I love you” is a hard thing to do. You might be worried if you are really expressing your truly feelings or if you are being pressured into it. Everyone has their own time when they think that it is appropriate to say I love you. There is no right or wrong time. However, it is hurtful when an individual makes himself vulnerable and says, I love you, and his words are not returned. Sometimes it may be a simple act of courtesy to return the sentiment. On the other hand you may be setting him up for false expectations about the potential for a relationship.

Obviously I love you more than I love myself

There are no words to describe how much I love you. No one has ever loved someone as much as I love you so no one has ever had to make words for such a strong feeling of love. There are no words to describe how I would do anything to make you happy, how the only thing I ever think about is you, how you’re always on my mind, how when you’re sad I am too, how I would go to the end of the world and back five times if you wanted me to, how when you smile my knees get all weak, and how when you tell me everything will be okay I forget all my problems and think only about you. I love you more than you could ever imagine.